There was another one here,
http://www.kiva.org/app.php?page=businesses&action=about&id=29534This is anecdotal, but I spoke to my mother-in-law, who is from India, about these loans to women in Pakistan. She comes from an area of India right near the Pakistani border (and besides, Indians and Pakistanis are essentially the same people). She agreed that giving the money to the wife, even if the loan is for the husband, does give the woman status in the relationship and in the community. She said that many of these woman live in horrible conditions, and this can only improve things for them. Since I can't lend to India right now, I'm going to try to lend to Pakistan as much as I am able.
I will indeed try to look for loans where the woman is the direct recipient, and I can understand why others would want to make that their sole objective. However, please realize that there are cultural issues at work here beyond what most of us are familiar with. If you choose to make a loan to an individual in Pakistan--man or woman--understand that you're helping someone very much. And you're making a difference in that particular household.
As an aside, I went to Kutch, where my in-laws were originally from, when I was in India in 2005. So many of these Pakistani photos look like they could have been taken in Kutch. I went to a home that looked like this one:
http://www.kiva.org/app.php?page=businesses&action=about&id=29532 I was...horrified...to be there. The poverty there was simply incomprehensible. It's beyond anything I could have ever imagined. And photos or videos simply don't convey the magnitude of it.
Let me also say that I went there as a woman of privilege. My husband's family is quite well-to-do, especially by Kutchi standards. I didn't stay in places like that. I had people to cook for me. And drive me around. *sigh* When I came back to the U.S., I couldn't even talk about it. It has definitely changed my outlook on life. I used to think I grew up poor, and by American standards, I did. But my God. I don't feel that way any more.
I hope we can look beyond who the loan is to and just recognize that these people are trying to better their lives. Let's not forget that Asasah was founded by a woman. This is directly from the MFI info on Kiva:
[Asasah] believes that female empowerment is a powerful catalyst for positive social change. Hence, for this reason 100% of Asasah's clients are women. Asasah's methodology provides women with flexibility to invest in their business or their family business. While safeguarding support of the entire family, Asasah makes the woman the primary point of contact for delivery of financial services, which elevates her position in the household and community."Nicole
P.S.: Sorry that was so long.