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Author Topic: Women for Women International (for KF sponsors and interested friends)  (Read 12385 times)
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« on: April 08, 2009, 04:12:41 PM »

"Helping women survivors of war rebuild their lives." 

That's Women for Women International's slogan and mission, and they have had great success in doing this through a several-step program which includes counseling, training, direct family aid, and business development, underwritten by sponsors who pledge to continue their sponsorship for one year with a matched 'sister' in one of the countries where WfWI operates (Afghanistan, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Democratic Republic of the Congo, Iraq, Kosovo, Nigeria, Rwanda, Sudan -- all but one of which are countries where Kiva offers loans.  The Bosnian MFI which Kiva works with, Zene za Zene, is a partner of WfWI.)  Sponsors may select a country when they apply, or indicate "wherever there is most need".  A personal relationship can be built through letters, cards, and photos, although WfWI discourages sending gifts.

From the WfWI website:
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We begin by working with women who may have lost everything in conflict and often have nowhere else to turn. Participation in our one-year program launches women on a journey from victim to survivor to active citizen. We identify services to support graduates of the program as they continue to strive for greater social, economic and political participation in their communities.

As each woman engages in a multi-phase process of recovery and rehabilitation, she opens a window of opportunity presented by the end of conflict to help improve the rights, freedoms and status of women in her country. As women who go through our program assume leadership positions in their villages, actively participate in the reconstruction of their communities, build civil society, start businesses, train other women and serve as role models, they become active citizens who can help to establish lasting peace and stability.

Women begin in our Sponsorship Program where direct financial aid from a sponsor helps them deal with the immediate effects of war and conflict such as lack of food, water, medicine and other necessities. Exchanging letters with sponsors provides women with an emotional lifeline and a chance to tell their stories —maybe for the first time. As their situations begin to stabilize, women in our program begin building a foundation for their lives as survivors.

While continuing to receive sponsorship support, women embark on the next leg of the journey and participate in the Renewing Women’s Life Skills (ReneWLS) Program that provides them with rights awareness, leadership education and vocational and technical skills training. Women build upon existing skills and learn new ones in order to regain their strength, stability and stature on the path to becoming active citizens.

Women for Women International believes that establishing a means to earn a sustainable living is critical to being fully active in the life of a family, community and country. To help women transform their new skills into financial independence and sustainability, we offer job skills training to strengthen women’s existing skills and to introduce new skills in traditional and non-traditional fields so women can access future employment opportunities.

Building on the skills training program, we offer comprehensive business services designed to help women start and manage their own microenterprises. We give them access to capital and operate microcredit programs in Afghanistan and Bosnia & Herzegovina with an overall repayment rate of 98%. We give women access to markets by facilitating product sales through outside retailers. We provide expertise such as product design, production assistance and business development workshops. We also help women form micro-enterprises such as production facilities and cooperative stores to sell the goods women produce.




There have been posts on KF about this organization in the past, but no single thread dedicated to those who are currently sponsoring a sister, those who are awaiting their sponsorship match, or those who are interested in knowing more about the organization or what it's like to be a sponsor.  (Two threads about WfWI are Women@Google - Women for Women International  and Women For Women: Shop the Bazaar.)  So I am opening this thread for all discussions about WfWI and our variety of experiences.  (I know of at least five KFs who are either currently sponsoring a sister or are waiting to receive their sister's information in the mail right now.)


So, I'll go first!  I signed up a couple months ago and have been waiting to be matched with a sister from a country of greatest need.  I have already mailed in a first postcard to be delivered to the sister I have not yet been introduced to, saying, "We have not met yet, but I am sending you strength and courage and am looking forward to meeting you soon."  I am expecting to receive her name and situational details next week, but learned today when confirming my billing address details on the phone that my sister lives in the DRC (Democratic Republic of Congo).  These comments from wikipedia about the status of women in DRC are sobering.

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In eastern Congo, the prevalence and intensity of rape and other sexual violence is described as the worst in the world. They have been raped during warfare and kept as slaves for soldiers. When the women are released, most killed themselves or checked into a hospital where they would die.

The war has made the life of women more precarious. Violence against women seems to be perceived by large sectors of society to be normal. In July 2007, the International Committee of the Red Cross expressed concern about the situation in eastern DRC. According to the UN Special Rapporteur on Violence, Yakin Ertürk, who toured eastern Congo in July 2007, violence against women in North and South Kivu included “unimaginable brutality”.

I'll plan to post updates here if appropriate, and would be interested in hearing from other KFs who have been involved in WfWI for a while, as well as hearing from other new sponsors.  It seems like a super program, and I can't wait to meet my sister.

--Diane.
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« Reply To This #1 on: April 08, 2009, 05:28:54 PM »

Thank you Diane for posting this information in regards to Women for Women International.  I have thought about getting involved with this organization for quite some time and this post has helped me decide that it is something I want to get done....Thanks again for the info.
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« Reply To This #2 on: April 08, 2009, 11:45:40 PM »

I was matched with my new sister the same day as Diane, but I do not know yet where she comes from. So I am really looking forward to receiving soon my welcome package and learn more about her. This is so exciting!  Confetti
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« Reply To This #3 on: April 09, 2009, 04:39:15 AM »

I am on my second round of sponsorship.

My first sister was from Nigeria, and she graduated from the program last October. I sent her a letter every month, full of encouragement and bits and pieces about my life, too. When I received her exit interview and read that the part of the program she found most useful was 'correspondence from sponsor', I cried. She listed her address so we can communicate directly....during the program, everything goes through WfWI so it can be translated. Since my sister's graduation, I've received 2 cards and a picture of her doing the work she trained for during the program....absolutely beautiful! And I am still writing to her monthly.

Right now, I am sponsoring a sister in Rwanda and another sister in Afghanistan.

This is my letter writing time of the month.... Kiss I find myself thinking about what I want to convey after I get into bed when I seem to be able to put aside my daily worries as my mind relaxes.

A wonderful program...I highly recommend it.
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« Reply To This #4 on: April 17, 2009, 03:17:36 PM »

Diane, guess what? My welcome package arrived finally today Yahoo! - and my sister is also from the Congo!!!
This would be pure luck, but your sister is not by coincidence also a member of the Tukafuluka/Mugunga II group?  Grin

I am so happy and really looking forward to write my first letter to Cecile this weekend!  Party
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« Reply To This #5 on: April 17, 2009, 03:19:45 PM »

That's so exciting, Mona!  I have not yet received my packet with details, maybe it will be in the mailbox when I get home.  Wouldn't that be amazing if our 'sisters' also know each other?!

Wow, I am now even more impatient for the mail to arrive.


--Diane.
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« Reply To This #6 on: April 17, 2009, 09:02:11 PM »

I just signed up for this! I am very excited to get matched with a sister wherever it's most needed. I'll keep you all updated!
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« Reply To This #7 on: April 17, 2009, 11:47:16 PM »

Diane, guess what? My welcome package arrived finally today  - and my sister is also from the Congo!!!
This would be pure luck, but your sister is not by coincidence also a member of the Tukafuluka/Mugunga II group?

My welcome package also arrived today!  There is a lot of information on the DRC and the situation there, I was surprised.  As for my new 'sister', Philomene is a member of the Twaramutso/Mugunga II group -- they are in the same camp, but not the same women group, so we do not know yet if they might know each other.  Mugunga II is a refugee camp near Goma (NOTE: There is a heartbreaking photoset at that link, and be warned that it is not an easy read.).  20,000 people live in Mugunga II, so depending how closely the women groups associate, Tukafuluka and Twaramutso members may or may not be familiar with each other.  Let's be in touch through PM and see what we can find out.  (I could call WfWI on Monday and ask.)

My sister, Philomene, has 8 surviving children, 6 of whom live at home and 3 of whom are of school age but only one is attending school.  Interesting to me is the fact that the one child attending school is a daughter.  Philomene herself has never been to school.

I'll be writing my letter to her this weekend also.

--Diane.

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Some quotes from the linked article above.  Before a month ago, I had an inkling of what things were like in DRC, but I had no idea they were this severe and tragic.  I am now an even stronger believer in what WfWI is trying to do here, and elsewhere.

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Imagine a small city with no infrastructure. No electricity, stores, medical care, food, little water and no blankets to cover the newborn whose cries are a testimony to their fight for life. Imagine women working as volunteer midwives who carry pregnant rape victims on their backs from the forests to the relative "safety" of this landscape.
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It is the women who try to stitch together the tattered remnants of civilized society. The displaced men roam the camps in a kind of stupor.
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« Reply To This #8 on: April 18, 2009, 05:06:20 PM »

  Embarrassed I know this sounds pretty lame, but the main thing keeping me from doing this is that I don't really know what I would write to the woman.   Undecided 
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« Reply To This #9 on: April 18, 2009, 07:56:58 PM »

WfWI suggests you keep the letters short, so it's not really that hard. And in the introductory package you receive, there are examples. I think the most important thing is the fact that you are writing to your sister, even if it's just to say Hi! How are you? You are in my thoughts. I'm proud of you. 

I admit I sometimes struggle to put my thoughts down, but then I think of the experiences my sisters have had, and I just want to let them know how proud I am that they are taking charge of their lives.
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