If I felt like funding, let's say, all of a $125.00 loan, I would not feel bad about no one else sharing that.
And why not? If it's a special loan, attractive and sought after by many lenders, the exactly same arguments Jill made hold true here. For this reason, Kiva, at one time (as far as I know - I wasn't here, back then), had a policy in place preventing lending more than $25 to one borrower.
Ergo: You should feel just as bad about that (if it is such a special etc. loan) as you try to make (reasonable) basket-sharers feel in the following.
The idea that someone was "greedy" and put $50.00 instead of the recommended $25.00 on a loan is stupid. Yes, stupid.
Whoa... I don't think calling a (well-reasoned) opinion "stupid" (twice, even) helps discussion. Especially when you twist and distort the statement first to make it look stupid and ridiculous (Mona didn't use or even imply the word "greedy").
The idea that someone sees a loan, chooses the full amout to take it out of circulation, then releases small amounts so friends can quickly fund that portion, that is "greedy", and while not "illegal" is certainly not in the interest of fair play.
It's certainly not "greedy" nor is it "illegal" - I grant you that "fair play" is up for discussion as with any of the (common) practices of reserving a seat in a cinema or theatre for a friend (or as German I have to add: a deckchair next to the pool with a towel), a place in the queue, or similar things (who
never did any of that, may cast the first stone, but I think I am relatively save in my glasshouse there). Obviously, those left out hardly regard that as "fair" - and for a reason, I grant you; and yet, (a) it's part of the pleasure to share certain experiences (as has been pointed out before), (b) it often does no or little harm, (c) can be done the other way round, too, (d) it's basically the host's/site's/theatre's/hotel's (or: Kiva's) job to set out the rules of what is acceptable and what is not.
From my experience with several new lenders, they don't look for the special loans (that's my main argument contra Jill's very thoughtful and thought-provoking post), they are basically compelled by so many of the loans that my guess is that (virtually)
no lender was turned off of Kiva by a particular loan being (perhaps inexplicably) unavailable - even more so, as now "fully funded" loans are clearly marked as such immediately and usually disappear from the list of fundraising loans rather soon so that there often won't even be "high hopes".
Furthermore, as was set out before, it affects a very small number of loans, sometimes not even very popular ones (and I agree that the problem gets bigger with "new countries", though these are not necessarily what the "new lenders" that Jill addressed are looking for), and in most cases only a part of the loan and for a relatively modest time-span (this varies, though, I agree) - the rules that Mona's mentioned form a good "code of conduct", that's basically in place already. As is Kerry's old proposal that, too, (Kerry, I beg to differ) wasn't ignored but is rather common practice (PMing, mailing, contacting potentially interested parties and/or posting it on KF and/or the Team Tisket board).
I don't take part in most shared loans (though I have participated in a fair share in a holding as well as receiving role), I believe, because I also like to find my own loans or help the "less popular" businesses, but I did not, do not and will not feel exceedingly guilty on those occasions I have/am/will.
Best wishes,
Wolfgang.
PS:
For a while I think I will fade into the background.
By all means, Karen, don't.
((Edited for self-moderation.))