http://www.npr.org/2012/03/21/149060167/florida-teens-killing-a-parents-greatest-fearThe
Trayvon Martin case, that’s the story (the “flavor”) of the week for a lot of the U.S. news and social media, has affected me deeply. It’s affected me deeply for a number of reasons, not the least of which is a boy, now a man, who, as a youngster, used to come over for an occasional sleepover, choosing to sleep in a sleeping bag on my bedroom floor with my golden retriever, Trubby, happily snoozing straddled across him. Arthur, whom I love. Arthur, a Kiva lender, by the way.
It’s only by the grace of God or someone that it wasn’t Arthur who was walking back from that convenience store in Florida last month. Turns out that he’s actually going to law school in Florida, of all places.
I remember too well when he was here, years after those sweet sleepover days, by then a startlingly good-looking young man. We were taking a walk around the place and it was a little cold, so he pulled the hood of his hoody up over his head. He’s black and his hoody was black.
I remember remarking at the time, with something that felt like incredulity and a kind of sadness, that that mere act of his pulling his black hoody over his head had somehow incredibly transformed him into the scary black thug TV and other stereotype that had insidiously infiltrated, I was amazed (and so very undone) to realize, even me. It was unbelievable. This was someone I had known and loved for the better part of his young life, and he now looked (almost) scary to me.
And then there was a three day seminar I’d signed up for when I was studying to be a teacher, a seminar that was co-taught by the African American, then Deputy Superintendent of the Seattle School System and her Caucasian elementary school principal husband. Without hesitation, I number that seminar as being among the top 5 most powerful and affecting educational experiences of my life. Maybe 17 years later, I still so vividly remember the Deputy Superintendent, the mom, speaking of her daily clearly tormenting fear for the life of their son, who by then was a young African American male living in America.
Among the many sobering, fascinating, illuminating and some of them, ultimately really sad stories and insights they shared with us was of their hoody-clad son, home on vacation from college, who’d gone out to take an early morning run in the mostly white neighborhood he’d grown up in. He was stopped by a patrolling policeman who’d wanted to know who their son was and what (the “#!+!!##!!!” ) he was doing in that neighborhood…..
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http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/post/under-suspicion-the-killing-of-trayvon-martin/2011/03/04/gIQAz4F4KS_blog.htmlI happened to catch Jonathan Capehart, the Washington Post columnist who wrote the column at the second link, on one of the TV news shows early this morning. He’s a frequent contributor on MSNBC. He’s always struck me as a soft-spoken, even-keeled, upbeat, actually, sort of wise and very likeable man.
When he spoke about the Trayvon Martin case and about “The Talk” that nearly every African American parent feels compelled to have with their teenage sons at some point in their early adolescence, he spoke with an intensity and a sadness I’d never seen in him before. It actually put tears in my eyes to sense how personal this case has felt for him and without question, for millions of other families in this Land of the Free where I live.
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The interviews, especially of Jonathan Capehart and of an author/journalist, Goldie Taylor, a little past the halfway mark in this 9 minute- long video, I found particularly worth watching. A few of you may decide you want to take the time, too. http://video.msnbc.msn.com/msnbc-tv/46823219/#46823219EDIT #2:
Just came across this story which sent me off in search for an image I could post having the logo that adorns a number of buttons and articles of clothing I bought ‘round the time of the last election. “People Power,” or righteous people standing up for something they deeply believe in, is a fierce and beautiful thing.Embattled Sanford police chief temporarily steps downEDIT #3: Not all
that tangentially related, or “
WALKING ONE’S TALK.”
When I came across this on the news, yesterday evening, I found this story incredibly poignant (and tragic), too, especially the part that begins at the 3 minute 20 second mark.
Sometimes, this is a really hard world to understand.
I wish for peace for all who hurt….